Two Old Sexperts: Talking Sexuality & Disabilities

Shawn McGill

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Candid disability sexuality support, handled humanely.

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Two Old Sexperts treats sexuality and disability as everyday human-service work, not an abstract specialty. Sean McGill and Sharon Potter talk through consent, loneliness, gender identity, communication needs, and support systems with warmth and candor.

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About Two Old Sexperts: Talking Sexuality & Disabilities

Two Old Sexperts is a warm, candid show about sexuality, disability, relationships, and the support systems that often struggle to talk about any of it. Sean McGill and Sharon Potter frame the subject through professional experience rather than theory alone. The pace is unhurried. The stakes are immediate. Episodes often begin with a concrete situation: a person in a group home pressured for affection, a young woman worried about being touched, a self-advocate needing clearer education, or a person with complex communication needs entering a legal process. From there, the conversation opens into larger questions about consent, boundaries, loneliness, and what real support should look like. The show is frank about sexuality without treating it as sensational. It is also blunt about avoidant systems. Staff discomfort, family resistance, undertraining, cost pressure, and crisis-driven service models all become part of the discussion. The hosts return often to prevention. They argue, through examples, that people are safer when sexuality education, trauma awareness, gender identity, and communication access are handled before harm occurs. Some episodes are structured as direct answers to difficult support questions, including hormone therapy, autism, and speech and language challenges. Others lean into guest expertise. Dr. Michele Angello brings a lifespan view of gender-variant, transgender, non-binary, gender-expansive, and neurodiverse people. Dr. Bev France brings attention to disability services, sexually challenging behaviors, victimization, court proceedings, and the VOICE protocol. The show also spends time with loneliness, connection, support groups, and grounding practices, making room for emotional survival as much as professional practice. It does not smooth over the hardest material. It does insist that people with disabilities deserve privacy, agency, safety, communication support, and honest conversation. Its best moments feel like practitioners refusing to let discomfort become neglect.

Made for: For disability support professionals, educators, families, advocates, and self-advocates who need practical language for sexuality, consent, gender identity, trauma, and relationships.

What sets it apart: The show pairs direct sexuality education with grounded human-service examples, making ethical questions feel concrete rather than abstract. Its strength is the blend of warmth, discomfort, and practical advocacy.

In their own words

Disability Consultants Shawn McGill & Sharon Potter have joined together to create a unique podcast series. We will focus on aspects related to gender, sexuality, and much more specific to supporting those with disabilities. Our goal is to give you information, resources and help to better enable more people to navigate these complex issues.

As heard by us

Based on 5 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Sean McGill and Sharon Potter turn difficult questions about disability, sexuality, consent and care into candid, practical conversations.

Two Old Sexperts: Talking Sexuality & Disabilities follows Sean McGill and Sharon Potter into situations where discomfort can have serious consequences.

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A vibrator beats an electric toothbrush when your support plan forgot sexuality exists.

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  • Sean McGill and Sharon Potter to say the awkward, safety-critical thing your support team keeps dodging
  • practical language for discussing consent, touch boundaries, and unhealthy relationships without euphemisms
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Best episodes of Two Old Sexperts: Talking Sexuality & Disabilities

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Recognizing Unhealthy RelationshipsApr 7, 2026

A practical look at unhealthy relationships, boundaries, and the signs that something is off.

The episode takes on unhealthy relationships, red flags, and the hard task of defining what a relationship is, especially in settings where people depend on support from others.

Loneliness in a "Connected" WorldFeb 9, 2026

A humane, practical talk about loneliness that keeps coming back to dignity, support, and small ways back.

The conversation keeps loneliness at the center, but it does not stay abstract. It moves from winter isolation and the split between being alone and being lonely to grounding, walking, and other small ways of reconnecting.

Gender Non-Conformity with Dr. Michele AngelloJan 17, 2024

A grounded discussion of gender identity, care, and the value of better training.

Two Old Sexperts centers on gender identity with Dr. Michelle Angelo, a therapist who works with gender variant and transgender youth and adults, along with families.

Merging Positive Approaches with SexualityAug 2, 2023

A candid, system-aware discussion of positive approaches and practical intervention.

Sean McGill and Sharon Potter spend the episode on a plain but hard question: how to support people with problematic sexual behaviors without letting discomfort stall the work.

Supporting People with Non-Traditional CommunicationJul 1, 2023

A grounded look at consent, dignity, and support when communication does not follow the usual script.

Supporting People with Non-Traditional Communication asks a hard, necessary question: how do consent, dignity, and safety hold up when someone cannot communicate in standard ways? Sean McGill and Sharon Potter talk with Dr.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Love After 50: What Changes, What Matters, What Lasts

    Sep 1, 2026·30m
  2. 2

    Recognizing Unhealthy Relationships

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    Sean McGill and Sharon Potter take on unhealthy relationships with a steady, practical tone.

    Apr 7, 2026·32m·2 clips
  3. 3

    Loneliness in a "Connected" World

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    Sharon and her co-host return to loneliness after almost a year since they did a podcast.

    Feb 9, 2026·37m·2 clips
  4. 4

    Summer 2025 Update

    Sean provides an update on Two Old Sexperts' ongoing commitment to offering behavior supports, consultation, and educational workshops on topics like sexuality, trauma, and gender identity through Zoom and affordable classes.

    Jun 12, 2025·3m
  5. 5

    You've Got Questions, We've Got Answers

    Two hosts address a listener's question about an autistic individual seeking estrogen hormone therapy without wanting to change their sex, while discussing speech challenges and personal guidance.

    Mar 27, 2025·34m
  6. 6

    Love Matters

    On Valentine's Day, the hosts discuss a personal experience at a demonstration where a sign saying 'trans lives matter' deeply impacted a young person, highlighting fears and the need for belonging in the LGBTQ+ community.

    Feb 18, 2025·59m
  7. 7

    Choices

    Dec 4, 2024·9m
  8. 8

    2 Old Sexperts: 2 Old Friends

    Oct 24, 2024·21m
  9. 9

    Autism and Offending

    Mar 9, 2024·24m
  10. 10

    Sexuality Practioner Program Cohorts Open for Registration

    Feb 19, 2024·2m
  11. 11

    Sexuality Practitioner Program Now Available

    Feb 9, 2024·9m
  12. 12

    Gender Non-Conformity with Dr. Michele Angello

    Hidden gem

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    Jan 17, 2024·40m·2 clips
  13. 13

    A shift with the old sexperts

    Nov 22, 2023·4m
  14. 14

    Pleasure products (A.K.A "Sex Toys") as a tool

    Oct 18, 2023·38m
  15. 15

    Dementia & Sexuality

    Oct 3, 2023·49m
  16. 16

    Positive Approaches: What does it mean?

    Aug 30, 2023·1h 3m
  17. 17

    Merging Positive Approaches with Sexuality

    Hidden gem

    Sean McGill and Sharon Potter spend this episode working through what positive approaches look like when the work is messy.

    Aug 2, 2023·43m·2 clips
  18. 18

    Supporting People with Non-Traditional Communication

    Hidden gem

    Sean McGill and Sharon Potter sit down with Dr.

    Jul 1, 2023·52m·3 clips
  19. 19

    Taking Back Control: Moving Through Trauma

    Jun 12, 2023·39m
  20. 20

    Loneliness

    May 30, 2023·42m
  21. 21

    Neurodiversity, Gender Identity, and Sexuality

    May 20, 2023·49m
  22. 22

    Lifespan Basic Sex Ed

    Apr 29, 2023·48m
  23. 23

    Romantic Feelings

    Mar 24, 2023·41m
  24. 24

    Using Sexual Consent Screening to Support People with Disabilities

    This episode discusses the use of sexual consent screening tools like Viscat and YAI's tool to support people with disabilities by assessing their capacity for informed consent and general sexual knowledge.

    Mar 10, 2023·46m
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    Sexuality Policy with Nancy Thaler

    This episode features an interview with Nancy Thaler, a senior policy advisor, discussing sexuality policy and community services for people with intellectual disabilities.

    Feb 25, 2023·47m
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    The Cookie Sutra

    Feb 8, 2023·32m
  27. 27

    Internet Safety

    Jan 7, 2023·39m
  28. 28

    When Someone Offends

    Dec 18, 2022·58m
  29. 29

    Support for Dating and Intimacy

    Dec 2, 2022·50m
  30. 30

    Sexual Consent for People with Disabilities

    This episode discusses the importance of teaching sexual consent to people with disabilities, covering topics like safety, legal aspects, and abuse prevention to help them navigate intimate relationships.

    Nov 12, 2022·46m
  31. 31

    Dating & Intimacy for People with Disabilities

    This episode features expert Robin Van Eerden discussing dating and intimacy support for people with disabilities, focusing on counseling, trauma, and dual diagnosis.

    Oct 28, 2022·56m
  32. 32

    Supporting the LGBTQIA Community

    Oct 14, 2022·56m
  33. 33

    The M word...masturbation

    Sep 30, 2022·42m
  34. 34

    Basic Sex Education for People with Disabilities

    Sep 16, 2022·44m
  35. 35

    Two Old Sexperts: Intro

    Sep 2, 2022·15m