Gays in the 'Burbs

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Gay suburban grievances, served Oklahoma-style.

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Gays in the 'Burbs is a loose, conversational show built around Corey and Robert's married-life shorthand in the Oklahoma City area. Restaurant stops, airport delays, parenting debates, neighborhood walks, weather complaints, and LGBTQ culture all become material for funny, pointed domestic commentary.

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About Gays in the 'Burbs

Gays in the 'Burbs is built from the ordinary material of suburban life: dinner plans, bad traffic, weather panic, errands, family stories, and the public behavior that lingers long after everyone has gone home. Corey and Robert bring a married gay couple's rhythm to it. One starts the complaint. The other fills in the missing detail, softens the landing, or makes the tangent funnier. The setting matters. Oklahoma City, its suburbs, its restaurants, its turnpikes, and its airport routines give the show a grounded sense of place. A restaurant review can sit beside a story about a delayed flight. A dog walk can become a study in neighborly suspicion. A discussion of gentle parenting can slide into memories of childhood discipline, then into how adults should handle kids in crowded public spaces. The show is chatty, but not empty. Its best moments come when petty annoyances reveal bigger values about manners, family, money, safety, politics, and queer visibility. Corey and Robert also talk openly about adoption, foster care, and the emotional weight behind becoming parents. They are willing to be blunt. They are also willing to circle back, qualify, and admit when a subject deserves more time. That looseness is part of the identity. The show does not sound engineered into segments so much as allowed to wander until the point appears. Listener submissions and make-it-make-sense complaints give it a running call-and-response with its audience. Travel stories stretch from Oklahoma to Palm Springs, with side trips through airline rituals and airport design. Local meals get treated with the seriousness of civic reporting and the looseness of a group chat. LGBTQ culture is present without turning every episode into an issues panel. The result is warm, messy, observant talk from the edge between city life and suburban routine. It is funny because the details are specific. It lasts because the complaints usually have a real feeling underneath them.

Made for: Best for listeners who like casual LGBTQ conversation, married-couple banter, local food opinions, travel complaints, and sharp everyday observations. It fits people who enjoy loose storytelling more than tightly produced interviews.

What sets it apart: The show turns small Oklahoma City-area moments into social judgment without losing its domestic warmth. Its mix of gay suburban life, restaurant chatter, public-etiquette rants, and sincere family talk gives it a lived-in texture.

In their own words

Gays in the 'Burbs is a podcast hosted by Cory & Robert, a married gay couple who live in the suburbs of Oklahoma City. Follow along to listen to everyday grievances, topics regarding the LGBT culture, and so much more.

As heard by us

Based on 4 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Corey and Robert make Oklahoma City routines a candid, funny lens on relationships, parenting and everyday social judgment.

Gays in the 'Burbs turns everyday conversation between Corey and Robert into a lively record of life around Oklahoma City. Restaurant verdicts recur, then give way to neighborhood encounters, travel frustrations, household routines and reactions to political or cultural…

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Butter rolls become adoption talk, and you get a seat at Corey and Robert's table.

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  • an Oklahoma City restaurant verdict detailed enough to make you curious about the butter rolls
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Best episodes of Gays in the 'Burbs

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I Think That's What Made Me GassyMar 1, 2026

Corey and Robert turn a loose chat about dinner, discipline, and travel hassles into an easy listen.

Corey and Robert keep things grounded here, with a loose conversation that moves from a restaurant review to blunt parenting talk and then to the annoyance of a delayed flight.

I'm the Vocabulary PoliceFeb 22, 2026

Butter rolls, adoption nerves, and a loose but honest chat make for a warm listen.

The episode opens at Jimmy's Roundup Cafe, a Southside Oklahoma City standby built on huge butter rolls, fried pies, big portions, good prices, and the kind of crowd that keeps coming back.

I Can Get This for 28 Cents in HaitiFeb 9, 2026

Lunch, dogs, and neighborhood manners carry the episode.

Corey and Robert spend most of the episode making two ordinary stretches of life feel easy to listen to. On Oklahoma City's east side, a late birthday work lunch leads to Corey B. Cookin, and the online pickup order gets a simple verdict: really good, worth tracking down.

It's Because of These Sensitive Weenies

A blunt, wandering conversation that turns hypocrisy and public behavior into a lively back-and-forth.

The episode starts with listener shout-outs and a January check-in, then slides into blunt talk about hypocrisy, immigration arrests, celebrity status games, and the odd way comment sections turn arrests into personal identity stories.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    This Woman Has the Personality of a Grilled Cheese

    The hosts discuss going viral on TikTok with a video featuring Spongebob voice navigation on the Waze app, gaining hundreds of thousands of views and new followers.

    ·51m
  2. 2

    I Am the Lisa Barlow of "Dork"

    The hosts return from a busy period involving travel and illness, apologize for the hiatus, discuss financial reports and distribution plans, and introduce an unstructured episode format for catching up on various topics.

    ·30m
  3. 3

    Stick Your Hands in Titanic Water

    The co-host apologizes for a delayed podcast episode due to a busy work schedule, allergies, and personal circumstances.

    ·16m
  4. 4

    I Really Think Some of These Meteorologists Should Be Sued

    The hosts discuss weather-related grievances, including meteorologists and emergency declarations, while celebrating their podcast's six-month anniversary.

    ·56m
  5. 5

    Maybe Your Kid is Just Picky and Useless

    The hosts discuss the podcast's growth, new listeners from various locations, and share personal updates about thrifting and new year resolutions.

    ·55m
  6. 6

    BONUS: Part Two with Austin - Alaska, ADHD, and More

    The host asks Austin about life in Alaska, focusing on the housing market, where Austin describes his dated three-bedroom house with high rent and potential for renovation to increase its value.

    ·45m
  7. 7

    FaceTiming at the Walmart Urinal

    A gay couple in Oklahoma City suburbs discusses their podcast's purpose and shares a humorous neighborhood story about a ding-dong ditcher waking a baby.

    ·23m
  8. 8

    Travel Travesties in West Virginia

    The co-hosts discuss their recent trip to West Virginia to visit family, which caused them to miss a podcast episode, and they plan to share travel details in this segment.

    ·34m
  9. 9

    Wikipedia Donations Are Going to Vladimir Putin

    The hosts discuss technical podcast updates, listener feedback, and regional stereotypes, but do not address the title topic about Wikipedia donations and Vladimir Putin in this segment.

    ·34m
  10. 10

    Bodies and Beginner Drivers

    The host shares a personal story about a high school anatomy field trip to a medical school where they saw cadavers and learned about body parts, including holding a brain.

    ·24m
  11. 11

    Pavement Princesses Are Unnecessary

    The host discusses Palm Springs as a travel destination, highlighting its LGBT-friendly culture, desert location, and unique airport with scenic mountain views.

    ·17m
  12. 12

    Scooter Terrorism and Restaurant Cocaine

    The hosts discuss a listener's question about why children are allowed to misuse motorized shopping carts at stores like Walmart, questioning parental supervision and accessibility concerns.

    ·22m
  13. 13

    The United States is not Doing Too Hot

    The hosts humorously discuss finding a gray chest hair and aging concerns in a casual podcast conversation.

    ·52m
  14. 14

    AT&T at Costco - I Would Rather Drown

    The hosts discuss a listener from Australia, share a personal story about free breakfast at Wendy's, and introduce a listener submission topic.

    ·26m
  15. 15

    Some Toothless Hillbilly Wanting to Fight Me Over an Easy-Bake Oven

    The hosts discuss Thanksgiving plans and transition into sharing travel experiences, focusing on airline stories.

    ·28m
  16. 16

    You've Got Mail

    The hosts review 24-Hour OKC, a Vietnamese restaurant in the Chisholm Creek area, praising its food, atmosphere, and service, with a specific recommendation for the chicken pho dish called White Chicks.

    ·35m
  17. 17

    RFK Sounds Like He Chokes on Diet Coke

    The hosts discuss their first Halloween experience in their new Oklahoma suburban home, including trick-or-treating turnout and favorite costumes.

    ·32m
  18. 18

    That Really Melts My Butter

    Robert reviews Van's Pig Stand, a barbecue restaurant in Norman, where he enjoyed a loaded potato with brisket, butter, sour cream, and cheese during a birthday celebration.

    ·35m
  19. 19

    Tim Cook and Golf Carts are Ruining America

    The host discusses switching from Apple to Android due to battery issues, cost, and dissatisfaction with Apple's lack of innovation and Tim Cook's political theatrics.

    ·14m
  20. 20

    Helen Keller Would Not Approve of Jim Justice's Crocs

    The host shares personal experiences about spending Thanksgiving apart from his husband due to family visits and travel logistics, reflecting on holiday rotations and high airfare costs.

    ·51m
  21. 21

    A Piggyback Ride at the f*cking TJ Maxx

    The hosts introduce their podcast about gay suburban life and transition into discussing a story related to parents oversharing children's information online.

    ·29m
  22. 22

    Higher than a Chinese Tariff

    The hosts discuss their experiences living in Edmond, a suburb of Oklahoma City, highlighting its convenience, upper-middle-class reputation, and local social dynamics.

    ·35m
  23. 23

    We're Just Getting Started

    The hosts introduce their podcast 'Gays and the Birbs,' explaining it represents everyday gay life in the suburbs, challenging stereotypes of the LGBT community.

    ·21m
  24. 24

    Praise Be! May the Lord Reopen the Government

    The hosts celebrate their one-year wedding anniversary, discuss the recent court decision upholding gay marriage, and share personal updates about their busy week preparing for Christmas.

    ·28m
  25. 25

    I'm Going to Side With a Republican Today

    The hosts introduce themselves as a gay couple in Oklahoma City celebrating their upcoming one-year wedding anniversary and discuss new listeners from TikTok.

    ·48m
  26. 26

    B Cup City Over Here

    The hosts introduce themselves as a married gay couple from Oklahoma City, discussing their podcast's focus on everyday life and community issues.

    ·36m
  27. 27

    Amy Bradley, Chick-Fil-A, and other Bullsh*t

    The hosts discuss the Amy Bradley case, highlighting unreported aspects like a private investigator scam and Scientology connections, based on social media and podcast sources.

    ·28m
  28. 28

    Wound Up Like a Discounted Jack-in-the-Box

    The hosts discuss their Christmas experiences, including weather, holiday activities, and returning to work after the break.

    ·52m
  29. 29

    Jealousy Is a Disease, to Which I Say, "Get Well Soon"

    A Valentine’s weekend dinner at Ramsey's Kitchen in Oklahoma City gives Corey and Robert a restaurant review built around Bryce's wine recommendation, a lobster roll, and an RK smash burger.

    ·44m·3 clips
  30. 30

    Poop Nails and The War on Christmas

    Corey and Robert open with Jamie’s dating-app story, in which a man contacts her from multiple phone numbers after she blocks him following half a day of texting.

    ·37m·2 clips
  31. 31

    BONUS: Gays and Nissan Altimas with Austin Cain

    Hidden gem

    Corey and Austin Cain trade stories about Nissan Altimas, Toyota Camrys, damaged cars, and aggressive driving on I-10 and Oklahoma turnpikes.

    ·49m·3 clips
  32. 32

    TSA and Car Salesmen: A Tale of Two Scams

    Hidden gem

    Corey and Robert, a married gay couple in Oklahoma City, review Tequila Chulos near 63rd and Western, praising its chicken-cheese tamales and white queso.

    ·27m·2 clips
  33. 33

    It's Because of These Sensitive Weenies

    January opens with listener gratitude.

    ·1h 5m·2 clips
  34. 34

    I Think That's What Made Me Gassy

    Robert is under the weather.

    Mar 1, 2026·27m·2 clips
  35. 35

    I'm the Vocabulary Police

    Hidden gem

    A cafe review turns into family math.

    Feb 22, 2026·44m·4 clips
  36. 36

    I Can Get This for 28 Cents in Haiti

    Hidden gem

    Corey and Robert sound tired but still in it.

    Feb 9, 2026·1h·5 clips