A practical Christian frame for becoming a steadier husband and father.
Mike Frazier treats husbanding and fathering as a question of attachment, then keeps coming back to the same domestic test: can a man become a steady presence at home?

Mike Frazier, MD
408 episodes
Traditional marriage counseling and marriage coaching will tell you to work on communication. A pastor might tell you to sacrifice more and forget about yourself.But, what actually works when it comes to creating a strong, passionate marriage? One that's full of love, connection and intimacy?Find out with us on our podcast, Strong Men Strong Marriages.Hosted by psychiatrist and marriage coach Mike Frazier, MD
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A practical Christian frame for becoming a steadier husband and father.
Mike Frazier treats husbanding and fathering as a question of attachment, then keeps coming back to the same domestic test: can a man become a steady presence at home?


Pastoral sermons for healing, faith, and release.

Faithful steps for God-shaped dreams.


Christian marriage counsel with prayerful accountability.

Christian steadiness for unsettled news and cultural life.
The host shares his personal journey through inner child therapy work to address deep-rooted patterns in his marriage, aiming to help high-achieving Christian men improve their relationships.
This episode explores how men can access powerful masculine energy by balancing it with feminine energy, drawing from Eastern philosophy and Christian teachings to improve marriages and relationships.
A psychiatrist and marriage coach discusses how high-achieving Christian men can reduce stress as husbands and fathers through inner child work and relationship skills.
This episode explores finding balanced boundaries in marriage and parenting to be both loving and strong, particularly for Christian men.
This episode explores how high-achieving Christian men can improve their relationships by learning to tolerate emotional pain without resorting to anger or shutting down.
This episode offers guidance for Christian men on navigating difficult family times through spiritual grounding and maintaining peace in relationships.
This episode discusses the importance of consistency in leadership, marriage, and fatherhood, emphasizing showing up even when not at one's best.
This episode explores how high-achieving Christian men can develop yin energy—characterized by patience, understanding, and acceptance—to balance their yang energy and improve as husbands and fathers.
The host, a psychiatrist and marriage coach, explores how rigid personal rules may hinder life goals and shares insights from his therapy and program for Christian men seeking better marriages.
A psychiatrist and marriage coach discusses how Christian men can overcome jealousy when their wives show more attention to their children than to them, aiming to strengthen marriages.
This episode explores how men can draw strength from God to become better supporters for their families, moving beyond just financial provision to embrace a broader definition of masculine energy and spiritual leadership.
This episode explores how Christian men can strengthen their foundational relationship with God to achieve personal growth, peace, and purpose in their lives.
This episode explores how past experiences, including childhood and marital events, affect present relationships through nervous system memory and the importance of healing for breaking patterns.
This episode discusses how prayer can help Christian husbands and fathers gain perspective and guidance for improving their marriages and family relationships.
A psychiatrist and marriage coach shares his personal breakthrough on achieving freedom and peace in relationships, particularly for high-achieving Christian men in marriages.
This episode provides guidance for Christian men on making lasting changes in their emotional management, relationships with family, and spiritual connection to avoid reverting to old habits.
This episode explores whether pursuing goals in relationships and life is worth the associated costs, while announcing a future shift in the podcast's focus toward helping high-achieving Christian men find grounding in God and build meaningful connections.
A psychiatrist and marriage coach shares insights on managing anger towards family through inner child work and emotional self-care for Christian men.
This episode discusses shifting from a 'gap' mindset of frustration in marriage to a 'gain' mindset of serving one's wife to improve intimacy and relationships.
This episode introduces the Grateful Flow tool from Phil Stutz's book to help Christian men overcome negative thoughts in marriage and improve intimacy through self-reflection and apology letters.
This episode explores tools for men to overcome fear and performance anxiety in marriage, focusing on self-expression, clear communication, and having direct conversations about intimacy.
A psychiatrist and marriage coach shares personal experiences and advice for Christian men on how to handle emotional distance in their marriages.
This episode addresses how Christian husbands can navigate when their wives are reluctant to engage in spiritual practices like prayer together, offering a balanced approach to strengthen their marriages.
A psychiatrist and marriage coach discusses how confrontation in relationships is a masculine trait and shares personal experiences about overcoming fear in marriage.
This episode teaches Christian men how to rebuild emotional safety and trust in their marriages and family relationships through grounding themselves in God and managing their own emotions.
A psychiatrist and marriage coach shares personal breakthroughs on how Christian men can become truly powerful husbands and fathers by improving communication, managing emotions, and strengthening family relationships.
This episode announces the opening of the Grounded Leadership Program, sharing personal wins about feeling God's support in family and leadership roles, and encouraging listeners to join for spiritual and personal growth.
This episode provides scientifically based advice for men on maintaining focus and achieving goals, particularly around New Year's resolutions, by emphasizing control over controllable factors and improving various aspects of life.
This episode explores how high-achieving Christian men can build a strong relationship with themselves to avoid codependency and dependence on external validation.
A psychiatrist and life coach for Christian men explains why most men fail their New Year's resolutions and offers insights on addressing emotional and spiritual factors.
A psychiatrist and marriage coach discusses practical strategies for Christian men to better manage their emotions to improve their marriages and spiritual connection.
This episode explores shifting from a 'have-to' to a 'want-to' mindset for high-achieving Christian men to improve their marriages and overall life fulfillment.
A psychiatrist and marriage coach shares a spiritual analogy about viewing one's wife as a plant to help Christian men improve intimacy and communication in their marriages.
This episode discusses the 'active love' tool from the book 'The Tools' to help Christian men overcome resentment and improve their marriages through physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual growth.
This episode discusses three key self-care strategies for men to improve their roles as husbands and fathers, focusing on emotional management and personal development.
The host shares a personal breakthrough about overcoming feelings of needing to be perfect to avoid rejection, inspired by his therapy session and LDS church teachings on accountability at age eight.
A psychiatrist and marriage coach discusses practical strategies for Christian men to navigate feelings of being down in their marriages and parenting, sharing personal experiences and program successes.
The host announces he is taking a break from the podcast and coaching to rest and focus on his supplement business, while expressing gratitude to listeners and collaborators.
This episode introduces a five-part series based on the book 'The Tools', focusing on applying psychological tools to improve marriages, particularly for high-achieving Christian men, with examples of recovery from infidelity.
A psychiatrist and marriage coach shares a personal revelation about how Christian husbands can cultivate attention, appreciation, affection, and sex from their wives by shifting their approach rather than directly demanding these needs.
The host discusses applying principles from Benjamin Hardy's book 'The Science of Scaling' to help high-achieving Christian men optimize their marriages and family relationships through intentional choices and awareness.
Host Mike Frazier introduces an episode on the science of life after death, linking it to personal growth in marriage and fatherhood.
A psychiatrist and marriage coach discusses how men often mistakenly believe their happiness depends on their wives or children changing, and shares insights from his program about improving marital intimacy and communication.
A psychiatrist and marriage coach shares personal experiences and practical tools for men to manage panic when their wives request space, emphasizing that it doesn't always mean divorce.
This episode teaches men effective communication strategies for expressing their needs in marriage, focusing on avoiding passive-aggressive behaviors to foster intimacy.
The host introduces a rebranded podcast direction focusing on helping high-achieving Christian men live longer, stronger, and happier lives through psychiatry, life coaching, and spiritual grounding.
A psychiatrist shares personal strategies for repairing relationships after conflicts with your wife, emphasizing feeling pain instead of anger and incorporating faith-based principles.
Psychiatrist Mike Frazier explains how men can become secure attachment figures for their wives and children using attachment theory.
Host Mike Frazier discusses how learning to fight is improving his marriage, sharing insights from his program where men rebuild trust, enhance intimacy, and break negative patterns.
Mike Fraser replaces “win her back” with “how can I be a better man?”