Parenting Doctors Podcast

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Brief psychology tools for resilient families.

The gist

Dr. Daniel Van Ingen brings a practical psychology lens to parenting pressure points, from phone-fueled anger to exam stress and athletic stress. Episodes move quickly between stories, techniques, and interviews with people working on grit, nutrition, self-discovery, and resilience.

About Parenting Doctors Podcast

Parenting Doctors Podcast is built around fast, concrete parenting psychology. Dr. Daniel Van Ingen speaks from a psychology frame, but the show rarely stays abstract for long. It turns a tense dinner, a lost phone, a missing charger, or a bad sports performance into a usable teaching moment. The emphasis is on what is happening between the ears. Episodes often name the thought pattern first, then offer a counter move. That might mean helping a teen replace absolutistic phone thoughts with a calmer request for help. It might mean using an anger temperature scale before the slammed door or thrown remote becomes the whole story. It might mean moving evaluation out of the match, exam, or interview and into a separate performance review window. The sports episodes are especially strong on mindset. Athletes are encouraged to return to the love of the game, embrace adversity, and stay present when calculation and stress start taking over. The show also reaches beyond ordinary household conflict. Megan Buchanan’s story brings grit, injury, recovery, Everest, and the seven summits into a parenting conversation about resilience. Ariel Faulkner’s interview focuses on nutrition for female adolescent athletes, with attention to fueling, physiology, body image pressure, and energy needs. Beth and Greg Langston bring a college-preparation angle, centered on self-discovery, purpose, accountability, and the ability to explain oneself clearly. Other episodes lean more reflective, including the time technique, which divides unhappiness into past, present, and future and answers with gratitude, flow, meaning, pleasure, hope, and optimism. The grudge schema episode is heavier, using resentment, divorce conflict, and bitterness as examples of pain turned into control. The show’s style is emphatic and repetitive in a deliberate coaching way. It favors memorable formulas over polished storytelling. For parents who want compact, values-forward psychology with practical language for kids and teens, it offers a steady stream of usable prompts. Its worldview is optimistic, disciplined, and persistence-minded.

Made for: The show suits parents of kids, tweens, teens, and adult children who want direct language for emotional regulation, performance pressure, motivation, and family conflict. It is especially relevant for families navigating school stress, youth sports, phone battles, and college preparation.

What sets it apart: It blends psychology concepts with plain-spoken coaching examples, often turning one household or athletic scenario into a specific technique. The episodes are brief, but the range stretches from anger management and happiness to Everest-level grit and adolescent athlete nutrition.

In their own words

In five minutes or less, get powerful strategies for effective parenting. Dr. Daniel van Ingen illustrates evidence-based parenting strategies through stories and clear-cut examples. Dr. van Ingen is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Researcher, National Speaker, & Author of Anxiety Disorders Made Simple: Treatment Approaches to Overcome Fear and Build Resiliency. His latest books include You Are Your Child's Best Psychologist: 7 Keys To Excellence in Parenting & Flourish: Breaking Free with Less TV.

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Lessons From a Rocket Scientist who Climbed Mount EverestJun 18, 2022

A recovery story that makes grit feel practical.

Megan Buchanan's story is presented as a grounded account of grit: an aerospace engineer, adventure athlete, and motivational speaker who describes a serious leg setback, a stretch on crutches, and the self-talk that kept her moving.

Interview with Ariel Faulkner, on female athletesDec 6, 2021

A practical look at how female adolescent athletes may need more specific nutrition than male athletes.

This is a practical look at nutrition for female adolescent athletes, framed through a conversation between Dr. Daniel Van Ingen and Ariel Faulkner.

Voice of Champions: Interview with Addison Ruscoe

A thoughtful sports interview about patience, purpose, and staying present for the next play.

Dr. Dan Van Ingen's conversation with Addison Rusko, the voice of the Riverview Rams football team, keeps its focus on purpose, patience, and staying ready for the next play. The strongest stretch comes from the way broadcasting is treated as both craft and presence.

The Power of Connection & the Power of Storytelling

A faith-forward parenting reflection that pairs prayer, storytelling, and steady encouragement.

Dr. Daniel Van Ingen's return to parenting podcasts is steady and plainly spoken. He treats parenting as long, reflective work and puts storytelling at the center of it.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Voice of Champions: Interview with Addison Ruscoe

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    ·1h 24m·5 clips
  2. 2

    The Power of Connection & the Power of Storytelling

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    ·30m·2 clips
  3. 3

    My Daughter is Playing in the Regional Championship Varsity Football State Playoff Game Tomorrow Night. Why Not?

    Nov 24, 2022·9m
  4. 4

    The Everest Mindset

    Jul 1, 2022·5m
  5. 5

    Lessons From a Rocket Scientist who Climbed Mount Everest

    Hidden gem

    Dr.

    Jun 18, 2022·54m·2 clips
  6. 6

    There Are Four Characters in Each of our Life Stories: Victim, Villain, Hero, & Guide

    May 27, 2022·10m
  7. 7

    How To Get extremely Stressed Out for a Sporting Event, an exam at school, or an interview?

    Mar 18, 2022·13m
  8. 8

    Interview with Ariel Faulkner, on female athletes

    Hidden gem

    About 48% of female athletes are chronically underfueled, and Ariel Faulkner says that can damage performance and reproductive function.

    Dec 6, 2021·40m·2 clips
  9. 9

    Anger Around Phone: Teenage Anger Management Techniques

    Oct 15, 2021·10m
  10. 10

    The Time Technique

    Oct 1, 2021·14m
  11. 11

    Never Give Up

    Aug 27, 2021·11m
  12. 12

    A Happiness Lesson

    Jul 30, 2021·5m
  13. 13

    Interview with Greg and Beth Langston: The College Flight Plan

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    Jul 23, 2021·58m·4 clips
  14. 14

    The Grudge Schema

    May 22, 2021·14m
  15. 15

    How To Work With Difficult People

    May 14, 2021·7m
  16. 16

    Living a Fearless Life & Pursuing Defining Moments

    Apr 16, 2021·14m
  17. 17

    Is This Worthy of Crying?

    Apr 9, 2021·10m
  18. 18

    Gaslighting in Your Parenting?

    Mar 19, 2021·15m
  19. 19

    People Change Part 3: What Will I Leave When I Jump Off the Plane on Sunday?

    Feb 26, 2021·13m
  20. 20

    Do People Change? A Closer Look at marriages, relationships, and difficult behaviors like interpersonal avoidance, narcissism, and anger

    Feb 19, 2021·15m
  21. 21

    Does Dad Change? Do People Change?

    Feb 12, 2021·15m
  22. 22

    What Will You Leave Behind as You Jump off the Plane?

    Jan 29, 2021·11m
  23. 23

    How Do You Build Up While Addressing Behaviors? Can You Reverse Course If You Have Poured Negative Into Your Child?

    Jan 8, 2021·13m
  24. 24

    Self Talk Matters

    Sep 18, 2020·12m
  25. 25

    Teaching Children Good Body Image

    Aug 1, 2020·37m
  26. 26

    Eliminating Emotional Bombs in our Parenting

    Jul 24, 2020·6m
  27. 27

    Knowing Our Hot Buttons

    Jul 10, 2020·7m
  28. 28

    Interview with Jedd Hafer on Emotional Intelligence, De-escalation & Preventing Anger from Turning into Violence

    Hidden gem

    Dr.

    Jun 25, 2020·1h 13m·2 clips
  29. 29

    Covid-19 Prevention & Panic Prevention

    Mar 20, 2020·12m
  30. 30

    Teaching Our Kids About Anxiety In This Culture of Fear

    Mar 13, 2020·10m
  31. 31

    One of the Challenges of Single Parenting

    Mar 6, 2020·9m
  32. 32

    There is a Time to Confront & a Time to Let Pass

    Feb 28, 2020·6m
  33. 33

    Perspective Broadening

    Feb 21, 2020·6m
  34. 34

    Part 2 of Interview with Nutritional Expert Dr. Carey

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    Feb 6, 2020·39m·2 clips
  35. 35

    Kobe Bryant: Whatever It Takes

    Jan 31, 2020·10m
  36. 36

    4 Rules of Disagreement

    Jan 24, 2020·6m
  37. 37

    Interview with Nutritional Expert Dr. Carey, Part 1

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    Jan 9, 2020·33m
  38. 38

    Language Lessons from Mr. Rogers: 9 Amazing Steps of Patience

    Dec 24, 2019·8m
  39. 39

    Happiness Is A Choice

    Dec 20, 2019·12m
  40. 40

    A Beautiful Day In The Neighborhood

    Dec 6, 2019·6m
  41. 41

    Reflection Tips on Diffusing Tantrums

    Nov 22, 2019·8m
  42. 42

    Failure Reflection Exercise

    Nov 1, 2019·6m
  43. 43

    Is Parenting a Happy Endeavor?

    Oct 11, 2019·5m
  44. 44

    Interview with Eating Disorders Expert Patricia Price

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    Oct 1, 2019·44m
  45. 45

    What Is Your Parenting Style?

    Sep 27, 2019·7m
  46. 46

    Divorced Parenting: To Hurt or to be Vulnerable (Express preference)

    Aug 30, 2019·8m
  47. 47

    Overcoming, Overlooking, & Defeating Negativity Thrown at You

    Aug 16, 2019·11m
  48. 48

    Token Economy: Personal Responsibility, Affection, & Interests

    Aug 10, 2019·7m
  49. 49

    Time to Comfort, Time to Instruct, Time to Correct

    Jul 19, 2019·8m
  50. 50

    Family Conversations at Summer Dinners

    May 31, 2019·5m
  51. 51

    What Are The Stressors Young People Face Nowadays?

    May 24, 2019·11m
  52. 52

    Separation Anxiety

    May 17, 2019·7m
  53. 53

    Humility, Rules & Principles to Live by, & The Beauty of Motherhood: Happy Mother's Day!

    May 10, 2019·8m
  54. 54

    Shifting Attention

    Apr 26, 2019·11m
  55. 55

    Is There Meaning In Video Games?

    Apr 23, 2019·6m
  56. 56

    Building Optimism In Teenagers

    Apr 5, 2019·14m
  57. 57

    Mindfulness Skills For Teenagers

    Mar 29, 2019·10m
  58. 58

    The Specific Not Terrific Technique

    Mar 15, 2019·7m
  59. 59

    The Negotiation Strategy

    Mar 8, 2019·6m
  60. 60

    Petty Versus Purposeful Strategy

    Mar 1, 2019·5m
  61. 61

    The Oven Timer Strategy

    Feb 15, 2019·4m
  62. 62

    I Make A Lot Of Mistakes

    Feb 8, 2019·7m
  63. 63

    How To Form A Support Group for Parents of Teenagers

    Feb 1, 2019·22m
  64. 64

    Anger Solutions For Your Kids

    Jan 25, 2019·11m
  65. 65

    The Triple D Strategy for Manipulation When Attempting to Problem Solve

    Jan 18, 2019·8m
  66. 66

    Flourishing Families Have Vulnerable Relationships: Vulnerability VS Fear

    Jan 11, 2019·10m
  67. 67

    Cognitive Flexibility During Holiday Stress

    Dec 7, 2018·12m
  68. 68

    Preparing Our Children For Adversity

    Nov 30, 2018·7m
  69. 69

    Temperament & Reinforcement Are The Two Key Factors

    Nov 16, 2018·4m
  70. 70

    Healthy Families Allow Disagreement

    Nov 9, 2018·5m
  71. 71

    What is most important when dealing with aggression toward others, back talking, property destruction, defiance, and noncompliance?

    Nov 2, 2018·3m
  72. 72

    The Ultimate Family Sleep Challenge

    Oct 26, 2018·11m
  73. 73

    Social Media Stress Management

    Oct 12, 2018·7m
  74. 74

    Your Prescription for Passive & Aggressive Behavior

    Oct 5, 2018·6m
  75. 75

    Truth Emerges Out Of A Relationship

    Sep 28, 2018·10m
  76. 76

    Respectful Disagreement

    Sep 21, 2018·5m
  77. 77

    Tough Adolescents: Exiting, Waiting, & Overlooking

    Sep 7, 2018·8m
  78. 78

    Stop Pathologizing Childhood With Specific Problem Solving

    Aug 24, 2018·12m
  79. 79

    Helping Kids With More Self Compassion

    Aug 17, 2018·10m
  80. 80

    Tutoring for Video Games????

    Aug 10, 2018·8m
  81. 81

    Are you dealing with a child with an anger problem and you don’t know what to do?

    Aug 3, 2018·11m
  82. 82

    No Phones At Dinner

    Jul 27, 2018·7m
  83. 83

    Valuing & Sharing Our Failure Stories

    Jul 16, 2018·11m
  84. 84

    Guit VS Shame: Healthy Families Value Guilt But Not Shame

    Jun 22, 2018·5m
  85. 85

    Warning to Parents About Social Media

    Jun 8, 2018·6m
  86. 86

    10 Keys to Confident Kids

    Jun 1, 2018·14m
  87. 87

    Know Your Triggers & Love Anyway

    May 25, 2018·9m
  88. 88

    Persistent Redo’s, Patience and the Power of Praise

    May 18, 2018·3m
  89. 89

    Does Social Media Cause Anxiety?

    May 11, 2018·10m
  90. 90

    Sharing Personal Reflections & Excitement Here are the Parenting Doctors

    Apr 6, 2018·8m
  91. 91

    Helping Children, Preteens, & Teens with Secure & Confident Comebacks

    Mar 23, 2018·9m
  92. 92

    Overcoming An Ambivalent Attachment History

    Mar 9, 2018·6m
  93. 93

    Validating Emotion with Sincerity

    Mar 3, 2018·6m
  94. 94

    Balancing Privacy and Protection With Teenagers' Social Media

    Feb 23, 2018·6m
  95. 95

    How To Be The Best Sports Parent You Can Be

    Feb 16, 2018·6m
  96. 96

    Dismantling Disagreeableness: You Can Agree or Negotiate

    Feb 9, 2018·3m
  97. 97

    School Anxiety: Separation Anxiety Part 2

    Feb 2, 2018·6m
  98. 98

    Separation Anxiety

    Jan 26, 2018·6m
  99. 99

    Loving Angry Children

    Dec 4, 2017·5m
  100. 100

    Nip Negative Cycles in the Bud by Speaking Good Into Children

    Oct 25, 2017·6m
  101. 101

    Finding The Perfect Gymnastics Center

    Mar 8, 2017·6m
  102. 102

    Four Recommendations For Maintaining Poise On The Balance Beam Of Family Life: Part 3 & Part 4

    Sep 30, 2016·4m
  103. 103

    Growth Versus Fixed Traits In Our Children: Why We Sometimes Restrict Emotional Development?

    Sep 23, 2016·4m
  104. 104

    The Essence Of Anger Management Is Staying On The Subject

    Aug 19, 2016·3m
  105. 105

    Four Recommendations For Maintaining Poise On The Balance Beam Of Family Life: Part 2

    Jun 24, 2016·2m
  106. 106

    Four Recommendations For Maintaining Poise On The Balance Beam Of Family Life: Part 1

    May 20, 2016·3m
  107. 107

    Anger: Identification, Self-Soothing Strategies, & Anger Rehearsals

    May 6, 2016·5m
  108. 108

    What Are The Stressors For Young People Nowadays? Five Pieces of Advice Every Family Should Apply

    Apr 29, 2016·4m
  109. 109

    Resolving Blind Spots To Prevent Conditional Love

    Apr 8, 2016·4m
  110. 110

    Why Losing Is Great For Kids!

    Apr 1, 2016·7m
  111. 111

    Facilitating Courage In The Family: Bravery & Vulnerability

    Mar 18, 2016·7m
  112. 112

    How to improve communication between a teacher and parent when a child has a behavior problem in the classroom

    Mar 11, 2016·6m
  113. 113

    5 Keys To Reducing Experienced & Perceived Pressure In Sports & Academics In Our Children

    Mar 4, 2016·8m
  114. 114

    Parenting Teenagers with FOMO: Fear of Missing Out

    Feb 26, 2016·6m
  115. 115

    Coping With Grief

    Feb 12, 2016·5m
  116. 116

    Five Action Steps To Help You Teach Your Child To Never Quit

    Jan 15, 2016·6m
  117. 117

    What Is The Antidote To Your Teenager Making The Comment "I'm Not Proud Of You?"

    Jan 8, 2016·4m
  118. 118

    Top 10 Considerations When Addressing A Child's Tantrum During Family Pictures

    Dec 10, 2015·7m
  119. 119

    Screen Free Zones In The Home

    Nov 6, 2015·4m
  120. 120

    Some Parents Are Elevating Their Child’s Anxiety. Solutions: Knowledge is Power But Strategies Are Needed

    Oct 30, 2015·5m
  121. 121

    Back To The Future Tribute & Other Parenting Nuggets

    Oct 23, 2015·4m
  122. 122

    Developing Your Children To Become Overcomers Of The Sharing Problem

    Oct 16, 2015·3m
  123. 123

    Two Family Techniques for Dealing with Household Chaos & Overwhelm: 5 Senses Strategy and the Mindfulness Grounding (Countdown) Technique

    Oct 9, 2015·4m
  124. 124

    Protective Parents: Five Nights At Freddy's?

    Oct 2, 2015·6m
  125. 125

    Pivotal Moment Involvement

    Sep 25, 2015·5m
  126. 126

    Does Parenting Decrease Happiness?

    Sep 18, 2015·5m
  127. 127

    Not Letting Anything Go!

    Sep 8, 2015·3m
  128. 128

    Parenting Basically Comes Down to Two Things: Affection & Instruction

    Sep 8, 2015·3m
  129. 129

    The Antidote To Fickle Behavior Is Consistency

    Sep 8, 2015·4m
  130. 130

    The Topic of Spanking & 5 Ways to Make Sure Discipline Lasts

    Sep 8, 2015·4m
  131. 131

    Sibling Conflict Is Good!

    Sep 8, 2015·5m
  132. 132

    Conflict Resolution Part 2: Sibling Conflict Is Good!

    Sep 8, 2015·4m
  133. 133

    The Problem Of Overemphasizing Personality Traits

    Sep 8, 2015·4m
  134. 134

    Interpersonal Joining

    Sep 8, 2015·3m
  135. 135

    Inner Signal Detective

    Aug 13, 2015·3m
  136. 136

    Movie Review: Inside Out

    Aug 13, 2015·4m
  137. 137

    How To Raise Two Marshmallow Children: 5 Strategies

    Aug 13, 2015·5m
  138. 138

    A Book Review: Why Less is More for WOSPS: Well-Intentioned, Overinvolved Sports Parents by John M. Tauer, Ph.D.

    Aug 13, 2015·4m
  139. 139

    Wouldn't It Be Great If We All Had A Bug In Our Ear?

    Aug 13, 2015·5m
  140. 140

    The 3 Reasons Parents Make Reinforcement Mistakes

    Aug 9, 2015·4m
  141. 141

    Integrating Choice Theory with Discipline

    Jul 4, 2015·3m