Mesilas Yesharim

Rabbi Ari Klapper, Real Judaism, Eli Podcast Productions

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Bridge the gap between knowing and living Torah values. Rabbi Ari Klapper's detailed study of this foundational mussar text addresses the frustrating reality: we know what's right, but struggle to embody it. Practical character development, fear and love of Hashem, spiritual growth through stories and real-world examples. Change is harder than learning all of Shas, but it is possible with consistent effort and authentic guidance.

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    Ep. 43 – Am I Really Doing a Mitzvah

    Rabbi Ari Klappa explores whether people are performing mitzvahs (Jewish commandments) correctly, using the example of drinking on Purim to examine proper intention and execution.

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    Ep. 53 – Take Stock of Your Life

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses the importance of taking stock of one's life through self-reflection and planning, using business analogies to illustrate how to build a meaningful future.

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    Ep. 27 – Keeping Focus on What's Important

    Rabbi Ari Klapa discusses the importance of understanding one's spiritual purpose beyond physical senses to focus on Torah, mitzvahs, and Avodah Hashem in Jewish life.

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    Ep. 60 – Don't Jump Too Fast

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses the importance of gradual spiritual growth in Judaism, warning against jumping to extreme religious levels that aren't sustainable and can lead to abandoning one's faith entirely.

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    Ep. 58 – Pure Servant of Hashem

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses the first category of people who serve Hashem—the Shalmei Hadass—who have complete clarity that their purpose in life is to serve God.

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    Ep. 51 – The Garden Maze

    Rabbi Ari Klapper uses the metaphor of a garden maze to explain how experienced spiritual guides provide essential direction in navigating Jewish life.

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    Ep. 45 – Wait a Second.... What am I Doing

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses the importance of pausing to reflect on one's daily actions and habits to recognize potential wrongdoing, emphasizing both learning Jewish law (halacha) and regular self-examination.

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    Ep. 39 – What is Really Important in Life

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses the importance of self-reflection and identifying what truly matters in life from a Jewish wisdom perspective.

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    Ep. 37 – Being Honest with Yourself

    This episode explores the importance of self-honesty and mindful reflection in Jewish spiritual life, drawing on teachings about resisting temptation and personal growth.

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    Ep. 34 – Stop Running!

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses how people often act without reflection, comparing them to horses running into battle without considering the consequences of their actions.

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    Ep. 68 – The Average Guy

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses the importance of self-honesty in spiritual practice, focusing on how most people fall into the 'average' category and the implications for Shabbat and divine judgment in this world.

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    Ep. 67 – Before It's Too Late

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses how complacency in spiritual matters, contrasted with ambition in material pursuits, is a harmful illusion that prevents serious engagement with Jewish religious practice.

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    Ep. 62 – Compared to Others

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses spiritual levels in Judaism, focusing on the highest level of fearing sin and the importance of recognizing one's current spiritual standing while aspiring to grow.

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    Ep. 61 – The Need for Guidance

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses the importance of serving Hashem with proper guidance and intention to achieve spiritual growth through mitzvahs.

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    Ep. 33 – Purposely Closing Your Eyes

    Rabbi Ari Klapa discusses the illogical behavior of people who purposely ignore spiritual truths that could save their souls from eternal damnation, using analogies like crossing a street with eyes closed or refusing a fireman's rescue.

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    Ep. 28 – The Smallest Details

    Rabbi Ari Klapa discusses how paying attention to small details in Jewish religious practice and life can make significant spiritual and practical differences, using analogies like weighing diamonds and the joy of performing mitzvahs.

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    Ep. 48 – The Darkness of this World

    This episode explores how darkness in the world leads people to make mistakes by either blinding them completely or distorting their perception of reality, using Jewish wisdom and biblical examples like King Saul.

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    Ep. 52 – The Treasure of Listening

    Rabbi Ari Klapper uses the metaphor of a hedge maze to explain how spiritual guidance from those who have mastered their Yetzirah can help navigate life's confusing choices.

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    Ep. 66 – Use Your Natural Jealousy

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses how to transform natural jealousy into spiritual growth by focusing on one's own divine path rather than comparing oneself to others.

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    Ep. 56 – Sensitivity Training

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses how learning Torah cultivates the Jewish spiritual trait of being careful and sensitive in one's actions and life.

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    Ep. 42 – What Am I Doing

    Rabbi Ari Klappa discusses a Talmudic teaching about the importance of self-reflection and examining one's actions in life according to Jewish wisdom.

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    Ep. 46 – Stop and Think

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses the Jewish concept of 'cheshbon' (accounting) from the Gemara Bava Basra, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and weighing mitzvahs (good deeds) versus veras (sins) before acting.

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    Ep. 30 – Controling Your Own Mind

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses the spiritual challenge of controlling one's mind and aligning intentions with Hashem in Jewish life.

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    Ep. 64 – Excuses

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses the importance of taking spiritual growth seriously in Judaism, warning against making excuses to avoid religious commitment and emphasizing the need to act now rather than procrastinate.

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    Ep. 63 – Long Term Investments

    Rabbi Ari Klapa discusses the spiritual concept of investing in this life to achieve rewards in the afterlife (Olam Haba), comparing it to long-term financial investments.

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    Ep. 57 – Real Meaning in Life

    This episode explores how learning Torah and understanding the importance of serving God (Aboidus Hashem) helps individuals become more careful and thoughtful in their actions, connecting them to a long chain of Jewish tradition.

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    Ep. 69 – Fixing the Crack in the Foundation

    This episode explores Jewish teachings on divine justice and accountability, using the story of Abram Avinu to illustrate how even minor infractions have consequences, connecting it to the historical suffering of Bnei Yisrael in Mitzrayim.

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    Ep. 54 – Hashem Wants You All the Time

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses the importance of daily reflection on one's life purpose according to Torah principles, contrasting it with worldly preoccupations like money and entertainment.

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    Ep. 35 – Are You Thinking

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses how the Yetzirah creates pressure that prevents reflection, leading to regret when people realize their wrongdoings, using examples of purposeful actions and fear.

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    Ep. 31 – Keep Your Eye on the Goal

    Rabbi Ari Klappa discusses the foundational importance of understanding one's purpose in serving Hashem according to Jewish teachings.

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    Ep. 55 – What am I Doing

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses the importance of self-reflection in Jewish life, emphasizing the need to first determine what is right and then assess whether one is living accordingly to foster personal growth.

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    Ep. 41 – Truly Know Yourself

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses the importance of honest self-reflection in Jewish life, emphasizing how admitting personal faults is a crucial step toward growth and avoiding blame in relationships.

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    Ep. 40 – Develop Your Instinct

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses how instinct can be both inborn and acquired through training, using the example of Navy SEALs to illustrate how deliberate practice shapes automatic responses.

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    Ep. 22 - The Tests of This World

    Rabbi Ari Klapper explores Jewish teachings on finding purpose in life through building up this world rather than focusing solely on the afterlife.

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    Ep. 47 – Can You See

    Rabbi Ari Klappa discusses the importance of self-reflection in Jewish life, using a couple's painful argument as an example of how people often fail to see the truth beneath their actions.

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    Ep. 65 – Guaranteed Investment

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses the importance of spiritual effort in this world to secure a better place in the afterlife (Olam Haba), using business failure analogies to explain why people might give up on religious practice.

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    Ep. 26 – Your Neshamah, Your True Self

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses the concept of the soul in Judaism, explaining the differences between the lower-level nephesh in animals and the higher-level neshamah in humans, particularly Jews.

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    Ep. 38 – Help Yourself

    Rabbi Ari Klappa discusses the necessity of divine assistance in overcoming spiritual challenges and the importance of self-awareness in Jewish life.

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    Ep. 25 - Can’t I Just Enjoy Myself

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses the concept of purpose in life from a Jewish perspective, exploring how belief in God and the afterlife relates to finding meaning in this world.

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    Ep. 24 - This World to the Next

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses the Jewish perspective on life as a journey toward the afterlife (Olam Haba), contrasting it with secular views and questioning the meaning of celebrations like birthdays without belief in the next world.

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    Ep. 50 – Corrupted Logic

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses how the darkness of the modern world leads people to justify immoral actions by twisting logic to make evil appear good.

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    Ep. 36 – Think Before it Happens

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses the importance of vigilance and wisdom in spiritual life, drawing from Jewish texts to warn against complacency and encourage thoughtful living.

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    Ep. 23 - Influence on This World

    Rabbi Ari Klappa discusses how the entire world has a purpose to achieve closeness to God through different levels of service, with Jewish people having distinct roles like Kohanim that elevate others.

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    Ep. 49 – The Second Mistake

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses how the darkness of the world, with its deceptive mixture of light, allows evil forces to distort perceptions of good and bad, using examples like modesty being scorned and immorality being praised.

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    Ep. 21 - Run Away From the Yetzer Hara

    Rabbi Ari Klappa discusses how both challenges and blessings in life test one's faith and relationship with God, emphasizing the importance of maintaining strong prayer and devotion in all circumstances.

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    Ep. 32 – Care About Yourself

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses the first step in spiritual growth through Avodis Hashem, emphasizing the importance of caring about oneself as foundational to Jewish life and personal development.

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    Ep. 59 – Understanding What You are Doing

    Rabbi Ari Krapa discusses the concept of Shlemi Adas, exploring the balance between wholehearted devotion to Hashem and maintaining mental health, while emphasizing that true understanding of religious purpose develops with maturity.

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    Ep. 44 – Do Things Better

    This episode of Real Judaism with Rabbi Ari Krapa offers unfiltered wisdom for Jewish life, focusing on spiritual guidance and practical insights.

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    Ep. 72 – The Test of Hishtadlus

    Rabbi Ari Klapper analyzes a passage from Mesilas Yesharim about Yosef's mistake in asking the sar hamashkim for help, teaching lessons on bitachon and self-improvement.

    Apr 14, 2026·6m
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    Ep. 71 – What is Your True Intention

    Rabbi Ari Klapper analyzes a medrash about Yaakov Avinu's punishment to illustrate the depth of divine judgment and the importance of internalizing Torah values.

    Apr 7, 2026·5m
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    Ep. 70 – Being Careful with Every Word

    Rabbi Ari Klapper analyzes a Medrash about Yaakov and Rachel to teach lessons on responding to others' pain and spiritual growth.

    Mar 31, 2026·6m
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    Ep. 29 – The Purpose of the Pleasures of the World

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses the purpose of worldly pleasures, emphasizing that life is for doing Hashem's commandments and facing tests, not for hedonism.

    Jun 17, 2025·10m·1 clip
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    Ep. 20 - The Battle of This World

    Rabbi Ari Klapper explores why God created a world full of challenges, focusing on the spiritual battles of wealth and poverty.

    Apr 8, 2025·13m·1 clip
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    Ep. 19 - A Deeper Understanding

    Rabbi Ari Klapper teaches the first paragraph of Mesilas Yesharim, explaining that life's purpose is to earn reward in the World to Come through mitzvot in this world.

    Apr 1, 2025·7m
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    Ep. 18 - The Pursuit of Pleasure

    Rabbi Ari Klapper begins a detailed study of Mesilas Yesharim, discussing the highest form of pleasure—being in Hashem's presence—and contrasting it with lower physical pleasures.

    Mar 25, 2025·13m
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    Ep. 17 - Clarity of the Purpose of Life

    Mar 18, 2025·13m
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    Ep. 16 - Hashem Wants Your Body

    Mar 11, 2025·16m
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    Ep. 15 - A Full Heart for Hashem

    Rabbi Ari Klapper teaches the concept of serving God with a full heart (shleimos alev) from the mussar text Mesilas Yesharim.

    Mar 4, 2025·22m
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    Ep. 14 - Loving Hashem

    Feb 25, 2025·10m
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    Ep. 13 - Walk in His Ways

    Rabbi Ari Klapper begins a detailed study of the second principle in Mesilas Yesharim, focusing on improving one's character traits (midot) through careful analysis of the text.

    Feb 18, 2025·13m
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    Trailer S2 Shemiras Einayim

    Feb 18, 2025·1m
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    Ep. 12 - What Does Hashem Want From You

    Rabbi Ari Klapper discusses what Hashem wants from Klal Yisrael, emphasizing the effort required for a good relationship with God and the benefits in both this world and the next.

    Feb 11, 2025·17m
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    Ep. 11 - Use Your Time Right

    Feb 4, 2025·8m
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    Ep. 10 - Like You Are Running After Money!!!

    Rabbi Ari Klapper teaches from the Mesilas Yesharim on purifying thoughts and fixing character traits, using a teaching from the Arizal about Avraham Avinu.

    Jan 28, 2025·19m
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    Ep. 9 - Develop Yourself

    Rabbi Ari Klapper teaches from the Mesilas Yesharim on the necessity of self-work and Torah study for spiritual growth.

    Jan 21, 2025·12m
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    Ep. 8 - Proper Planning

    Jan 14, 2025·7m
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    Ep. 7 - Natural Emunah

    Jan 7, 2025·8m
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    Ep. 6 - Seeing Life’s Crucial Details

    Dec 30, 2024·6m
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    Ep. 5 - What Drives True Avodas Hashem?

    Dec 26, 2024·7m
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    Ep. 4 - Rediscovering Mussar's True Purpose

    Dec 23, 2024·9m
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    Ep. 3 - Beyond Knowledge: Becoming Better

    Dec 19, 2024·7m
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    Ep. 2 - From Clear Ideas to Real Change

    Dec 16, 2024·6m
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    Ep 1 - Remembering What You Already Know

    Dec 14, 2024·7m