IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

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Practical perspective for parenting teenagers.

The gist

IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective treats teen parenting as a relationship practice, not a control problem. Episodes turn everyday conflict over phones, homework, independence, and respect into usable boundaries and calmer conversations.

About IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective is a parenting advice show centered on teenagers, family tension, and the steady work of keeping connection alive. It has a coaching-room feel. Episodes usually begin with a common parent complaint, then narrow toward a practical pattern that can be tried in ordinary home life. A teen wants independence but avoids responsibility. A parent keeps repeating the same rule and nothing changes. A relationship feels distant, and the parent is tempted to treat the distance as only the teen’s problem. The show pushes those moments toward clearer thinking. Ben Pugh often frames the parent’s job as setting up choices, privileges, and consequences without trying to force the teen into compliance. That gives the conversations a useful balance: warm enough to understand the parent’s frustration, direct enough to challenge habits that keep the conflict going. Courtney appears in several episodes, adding quick reactions, family examples, and questions that keep the advice conversational. Guest discussions widen the frame, with Nola Gephardt connecting responsibility to independence and Kenzie helping explore why apology matters beyond saying the right words. The show’s most consistent idea is that influence grows from relationship. It returns to that idea through phones, homework, chores, sibling dynamics, grades, sports, and dating. It also asks parents to examine their own identity and reactions, especially when yelling, criticism, or comparison pulls them away from the kind of parent they want to be. The delivery is brisk and plainspoken. Points are often repeated until they become portable: connect with the teen as they are, learn what matters to them, and build responsibility around values they already care about. IMPACT suits parents who want more than sympathy but do not want clinical jargon. It offers structured, emotionally aware advice for families trying to replace recurring power struggles with steadier trust.

Made for: Parents of teenagers who want concrete tools for boundaries, repair, responsibility, and connection will get the most from it. It also fits parents of younger kids who want to set patterns before the teen years intensify.

What sets it apart: The show turns parent-teen conflict into small, repeatable frameworks rather than broad encouragement. Its mix of coaching language, family stories, and sports examples makes the advice feel immediately usable.

In their own words

This podcast will help parents of teens keep life's struggles as a teen, and as a parent of a teen, in perspective. Parents will learn real tools to help them help their teens. They will learn how to build a rock solid relationship with their teen so they will have a powerful impact and a positive influence on their teen's life.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Raising Brave Kids in an Anxious World

    ·14m
  2. 2

    This Book Wasn’t Written for Parents… But It Might Fix Your Relationship With Your Teen

    ·27m
  3. 3

    Why Saying “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Enough With Your Teen

    ·32m
  4. 4

    Why Your Teen Feels Disconnected From You (And How to Fix It)

    ·28m
  5. 5

    How to Build a Relationship Your Teen Always Comes Back To (Let Go of Control)

    ·19m
  6. 6

    The Emotional Awareness Skill That Makes Parenting Easier

    ·28m
  7. 7

    Stop Mirroring Your Teen’s Bad Behavior (Do This Instead)

    ·24m
  8. 8

    5 Myths About Teen Resilience (And What Builds It)

    ·25m
  9. 9

    The Emotional Skill Every Parent Thinks They Have

    ·25m
  10. 10

    When Your Teen Won’t Change… Start Here Instead

    ·25m
  11. 11

    Are Phones and Social Media Really Driving Teen Suicide?

    ·32m
  12. 12

    Feeling Exhausted? Here's How to Feel Better Fast

    ·26m
  13. 13

    Blowups. Overreactions. Now What Do I Do?

    ·29m
  14. 14

    The Hidden Cost of Controlling Your Teen

    ·23m
  15. 15

    Why Your New Year’s Goals Fail Every Time

    ·21m
  16. 16

    What A Christmas Carol Teaches About Parenting Teens

    ·27m
  17. 17

    Let Go of Holiday Chaos by Building Better Traditions

    ·28m
  18. 18

    Your Teen Can Hate You… and You Can Still Have a Great Relationship

    ·27m
  19. 19

    The Parenting Update You Didn’t Know You Needed — Until Now

    ·44m
  20. 20

    The Gratitude Shift That Can Save Your Thanksgiving

    ·19m
  21. 21

    How to Be the Parent Your Teen Actually Learns From

    ·24m
  22. 22

    How to Motivate Your Teen Without Pushing Them

    ·23m
  23. 23

    When Your Teen “Stops Caring”… Why That’s Actually a Win

    ·36m
  24. 24

    How to Help Your Teen Find Their Spark

    ·57m
  25. 25

    You’re Not in Control of Your Teen (and That’s the Best News Ever)

    ·29m
  26. 26

    The Thing That Is Secretly Wrecking Your Relationship with Your Teen

    ·28m
  27. 27

    Stop Trying to Fix Your Teen — Fix This Instead

    ·37m
  28. 28

    Why Your Teen’s Confidence Crumbles (and How to Fix It)

    ·23m
  29. 29

    Why ‘Good vs. Bad Parenting’ Is a Dangerous Myth

    ·23m
  30. 30

    From Phillies Karen to Parenting Power: The Lesson Everyone Missed

    ·26m
  31. 31

    Your Teen Sees the Real You—So Why Hide Behind Fake Parenting?

    ·36m
  32. 32

    How to Simplify Parenting by Fixing Just Two Problems

    ·31m
  33. 33

    Stop Parenting for Approval—Your Teen Needs the Real You

    ·29m
  34. 34

    Busy But Not Burned Out: Why Overwhelm Is Optional

    ·27m
  35. 35

    One Thing Will Help Your Teen Perform Under Pressure

    ·24m
  36. 36

    How to Change Your Teen with This One Trick

    ·26m
  37. 37

    Stop Repeating Yourself: Boundaries That Actually Work

    ·29m
  38. 38

    3 Books That Will Transform the Way You Parent

    ·36m
  39. 39

    3 Simple Steps to Break Free from Distraction

    ·30m
  40. 40

    5 tips for Better Communication with Your Teen

    ·29m
  41. 41

    Raising Teens in the Age of AI: Friend or Foe?

    ·37m
  42. 42

    One Coaching Call Changed My Life—No Joke

    ·38m
  43. 43

    Why Real Transformation Starts Within—Not Out There

    ·54m
  44. 44

    Is AI in the Classroom a Threat or Tool?

    ·35m
  45. 45

    Stop Lying to Yourself With Your "Good Reasons"

    ·25m
  46. 46

    How to Break Free from the Victim Mindset

    ·31m
  47. 47

    Is Your Teen Out of Control? There’s Still Hope

    ·45m
  48. 48

    Forget Flowers—This Is the Gift Moms Really Need

    ·28m
  49. 49

    Why We’re Addicted to Being Anxious

    ·26m
  50. 50

    Your Teen Doesn’t Actually Hate You

    ·24m
  51. 51

    Secrets To Thriving With Independent Teens

    ·29m
  52. 52

    Help! My Teen Made a Big Mistake

    ·31m
  53. 53

    5 Teen Challenges and How to Solve Them

    ·31m
  54. 54

    Unlock Your Teen’s Hidden Motivation

    ·24m
  55. 55

    Simple Ways to Boost Teen Confidence

    ·26m
  56. 56

    How to Know if My Teen Needs Coaching

    ·30m
  57. 57

    The Secret Your Teen Won't Admit: More Connection

    ·13m
  58. 58

    How 3 Decisions Improved My Parenting Forever

    ·23m
  59. 59

    How to Empower Your Teen Effectively

    ·31m
  60. 60

    How to Create a 10-Word Vision Statement

    ·29m
  61. 61

    Creating a Vision for Better Parenting

    ·12m
  62. 62

    Let Go: Focus on What You Can Control

    ·30m
  63. 63

    Shifting Perspectives for Better Parenting

    ·22m
  64. 64

    Want Responsible Teens? It All Starts With You

    ·20m
  65. 65

    Rewriting Your Story with Marci Owen

    ·49m
  66. 66

    IMPACT Interview: Self-Love and Subconscious Patterns with Marci Owen

    ·35m
  67. 67

    Stop Holding Yourself Back

    ·19m
  68. 68

    Let's Make Parenting Teens Simple with Connection and Empowerment

    ·24m
  69. 69

    4 Principles for Parenting Teens

    ·28m
  70. 70

    Help! My Teen Refuses to Go to School

    ·24m
  71. 71

    IMPACT of Life Coaching: A Teen's Journey

    ·34m
  72. 72

    The BIGGEST Mistake Parents of Teens Make

    ·17m
  73. 73

    The Wheel of Life: A Simple Tool for Better Parenting

    ·19m
  74. 74

    How to do a Daily Parenting Debrief

    ·19m
  75. 75

    How to Reset your Parenting Thermostat

    ·23m
  76. 76

    The Problem with “I KNOW!”

    ·24m
  77. 77

    Blame Culture and How to Foster Responsibility

    ·23m
  78. 78

    Parenting and "Self-Deception" - A book review

    ·18m
  79. 79

    You are the Secret Ingredient

    ·14m
  80. 80

    Stop Shielding Your Teen from Failure

    ·17m
  81. 81

    The Most Powerful Relationship You Can Build with Your Teen

    ·19m
  82. 82

    Parenting Myth: It's My Teen's Fault Our Relationship Is Bad

    ·10m
  83. 83

    Stop Trying to Change Your Teen and Empower Them

    ·19m
  84. 84

    Building Better Boundaries with Better Consequences

    ·20m
  85. 85

    #1 Reason Parents Struggle with Teens!

    ·20m
  86. 86

    7 Back to School Secrets for Parents and Teen!

    ·29m
  87. 87

    Impact Episode Rewind: Daily Habits for Parenting Success

    ·18m
  88. 88

    How to BE the Change You Want to See in Your Teen!

    ·17m
  89. 89

    Generational trauma

    ·24m
  90. 90

    IMPACT INTERVIEW Rewind: Let Go of What You Can't Control

    ·49m
  91. 91

    Attachment Decoded: What Your Teen Really Needs from You

    ·37m
  92. 92

    Simplifying Parenting: Mindset, Skillset, and Habits

    ·31m
  93. 93

    My Teen's on My Last Nerve! Now What?

    ·26m
  94. 94

    3 Secrets to Make Summer Funner!

    ·26m
  95. 95

    5 Ways you're Modeling for your teens

    ·18m
  96. 96

    7 Strange Things IMPACTFUL Parents Do Differently Part 2

    ·20m
  97. 97

    7 Strange Things IMPACTFUL Parents Do Differently Part 1

    ·21m
  98. 98

    How to Improve Your Mental, Emotional, and Physical Health

    ·28m
  99. 99

    5 Minutes to Better Connection with Your Teen

    ·22m
  100. 100

    This is the ONE Thing to Help Your Teen With Resilience

    This episode introduces a guest and discusses a recent episode about the 'Philly Karen' incident, focusing on parenting perspectives.

    ·34m
  101. 101

    Why Your Teen Wants Independence But Avoids Responsibility

    Hidden gem

    "Seek responsibility, not independence" frames Nola Gephardt's family rule with lunches, cars, and privileges.

    Apr 16, 2026·36m·2 clips
  102. 102

    Stop Repeating Yourself: Boundaries That Actually Work

    Hidden gem

    A boundary is not about what your teen does; it is about what you will do.

    Apr 9, 2026·29m·1 clip
  103. 103

    This Book Wasn’t Written for Parents… But It Might Fix Your Relationship With Your Teen

    Hidden gem

    Brandon Young says the fastest way to build trust with teens is to "give trust" first.

    Apr 2, 2026·27m·1 clip
  104. 104

    Why Saying “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Enough With Your Teen

    Hidden gem

    Host Ben Pugh and guest Kenzie discuss tools for parents to build strong relationships with their teens and turn struggles into strengths.

    Mar 26, 2026·32m·2 clips
  105. 105

    Why Your Teen Feels Disconnected From You (And How to Fix It)

    “How you talk to them is how they will talk to themselves” is Ben Pugh’s key connection rule.

    Mar 20, 2026·28m·1 clip
  106. 106

    How to Build a Relationship Your Teen Always Comes Back To (Let Go of Control)

    Mar 12, 2026·19m
  107. 107

    The Emotional Awareness Skill That Makes Parenting Easier

    Mar 5, 2026·28m
  108. 108

    Stop Mirroring Your Teen’s Bad Behavior (Do This Instead)

    Feb 26, 2026·24m
  109. 109

    5 Myths About Teen Resilience (And What Builds It)

    Feb 19, 2026·25m
  110. 110

    The Emotional Skill Every Parent Thinks They Have

    Feb 12, 2026·25m
  111. 111

    When Your Teen Won’t Change… Start Here Instead

    Feb 5, 2026·25m
  112. 112

    Are Phones and Social Media Really Driving Teen Suicide?

    Jan 29, 2026·32m
  113. 113

    Feeling Exhausted? Here's How to Feel Better Fast

    Jan 23, 2026·26m
  114. 114

    Blowups. Overreactions. Now What Do I Do?

    Jan 15, 2026·29m
  115. 115

    The Hidden Cost of Controlling Your Teen

    Jan 8, 2026·23m
  116. 116

    Why Your New Year’s Goals Fail Every Time

    Jan 1, 2026·21m
  117. 117

    What A Christmas Carol Teaches About Parenting Teens

    Dec 25, 2025·27m
  118. 118

    Let Go of Holiday Chaos by Building Better Traditions

    Dec 18, 2025·28m
  119. 119

    Your Teen Can Hate You… and You Can Still Have a Great Relationship

    Dec 10, 2025·27m
  120. 120

    The Parenting Update You Didn’t Know You Needed — Until Now

    Dec 4, 2025·44m
  121. 121

    The Gratitude Shift That Can Save Your Thanksgiving

    Nov 27, 2025·19m
  122. 122

    How to Be the Parent Your Teen Actually Learns From

    Nov 20, 2025·24m
  123. 123

    How to Motivate Your Teen Without Pushing Them

    Nov 13, 2025·23m
  124. 124

    When Your Teen “Stops Caring”… Why That’s Actually a Win

    Nov 6, 2025·36m
  125. 125

    How to Help Your Teen Find Their Spark

    Oct 30, 2025·57m
  126. 126

    You’re Not in Control of Your Teen (and That’s the Best News Ever)

    Oct 23, 2025·29m
  127. 127

    The Thing That Is Secretly Wrecking Your Relationship with Your Teen

    Oct 16, 2025·28m
  128. 128

    Stop Trying to Fix Your Teen — Fix This Instead

    Oct 9, 2025·37m
  129. 129

    Why Your Teen’s Confidence Crumbles (and How to Fix It)

    Oct 2, 2025·23m
  130. 130

    Why ‘Good vs. Bad Parenting’ Is a Dangerous Myth

    Sep 25, 2025·23m
  131. 131

    This is the ONE Thing to Help Your Teen With Resilience

    Sep 18, 2025·34m
  132. 132

    From Phillies Karen to Parenting Power: The Lesson Everyone Missed

    Sep 11, 2025·26m
  133. 133

    Your Teen Sees the Real You—So Why Hide Behind Fake Parenting?

    Sep 4, 2025·36m
  134. 134

    How to Simplify Parenting by Fixing Just Two Problems

    A parenting podcast helping parents of teens build strong relationships and manage emotional drama, with a sample discussing Myers-Briggs personality types.

    Aug 28, 2025·31m
  135. 135

    Stop Parenting for Approval—Your Teen Needs the Real You

    Aug 21, 2025·29m
  136. 136

    Busy But Not Burned Out: Why Overwhelm Is Optional

    Aug 14, 2025·27m
  137. 137

    One Thing Will Help Your Teen Perform Under Pressure

    Aug 7, 2025·24m
  138. 138

    How to Change Your Teen with This One Trick

    Jul 31, 2025·26m
  139. 139

    Raising Brave Kids in an Anxious World

    Jul 24, 2025·14m
  140. 140

    3 Books That Will Transform the Way You Parent

    Jul 17, 2025·36m
  141. 141

    3 Simple Steps to Break Free from Distraction

    Jul 10, 2025·30m
  142. 142

    5 tips for Better Communication with Your Teen

    Jul 3, 2025·29m
  143. 143

    Raising Teens in the Age of AI: Friend or Foe?

    Jun 26, 2025·37m
  144. 144

    One Coaching Call Changed My Life—No Joke

    Jun 19, 2025·38m
  145. 145

    Why Real Transformation Starts Within—Not Out There

    Jun 12, 2025·54m
  146. 146

    Is AI in the Classroom a Threat or Tool?

    Jun 5, 2025·35m
  147. 147

    Stop Lying to Yourself With Your "Good Reasons"

    May 29, 2025·25m
  148. 148

    How to Break Free from the Victim Mindset

    May 22, 2025·31m
  149. 149

    Is Your Teen Out of Control? There’s Still Hope

    May 15, 2025·45m
  150. 150

    Forget Flowers—This Is the Gift Moms Really Need

    May 8, 2025·28m