209. Four Letter Words: Serving C-bomb

May 25, 2025·51 min·4 clips

Helen Zaltzman reveals how the word 'cunt' went from medieval street names to Beyoncé's Renaissance tour in a decade.

Host Helen Zaltzman opens by noting that 'cunt' appeared openly in medieval British street names like 'Grope Cunt Lane' and in personal names until the 16th century, when shifting taboos around female sexuality made it uniquely offensive. She observes that no equivalent word for male anatomy achieved the same level of rudeness, attributing this asymmetry to patriarchal stigma around female bodies. Zaltzman introduces guest Nicole Holliday, Acting Associate Professor of Linguistics at UC Berkeley, who admits personal discomfort with the word despite being a professional linguist, framing the episode as a growth opportunity. Holliday notes that the word is significantly ruder in the United States than in Britain, where affectionate use has long existed, but that American usage began shifting noticeably around three years ago. The conversation identifies 'serving cunt' and 'cunty' as a distinct register from using the word as a slur — what Holliday calls a 'cutified' context with no negative indexicality. Kelly Elizabeth Wright, assistant professor of language sciences at UW Madison and a lexicographer who puts words in the dictionary, explains that 'cunty' entering the dictionary reflected a genuine new part of speech and new meaning, not just increased frequency. Wright traces the complementary uses back to late 1980s and early 1990s New York City ball culture, created primarily by African-American and Puerto Rican communities, where African-American Language formed a linguistic foundation. In ballroom, a drag queen being called 'cunt' or 'serving cunt' represents the highest compliment for executing a convincing feminine performance — the most vulgar term for a female body part repurposed as the ultimate marker of femininity. Wright argues this inversion was possible partly because ballroom was a safe space where marginalised people could be as loud as possible after being silenced elsewhere. The episode credits RuPaul's Drag Race with bringing ballroom language to mainstream audiences, and identifies Kevin Aviance's 1995 song 'Cunty the Feeling' — later sampled by Beyoncé in 'Pure Honey' — as a key early citation. Zaltzman describes the moment at a Beyoncé Renaissance screening when 'CUNT' flashed in huge letters on screen behind Beyoncé, with a fake news channel branded 'KNTY,' as the moment she registered the word's mainstream arrival. Wright says Beyoncé's visibility gave other women permission to use 'cunty' without concern. Both guests express frustration at ballroom and Black queer language being attributed to the internet or treated as mere slang, erasing its origins in specific communities with specific histories of oppression. Holliday emphasises that African-American English is a complex, rule-governed linguistic system, not a collection of slang terms available for casual adoption. Wright addresses the cultural appropriation question, arguing that language change through contact is inevitable and that most adoption of terms like 'slay' or 'mother' does not constitute appropriation, using Chet Hanks's adoption of Jamaican patois as her benchmark for genuine appropriation. The guests discuss TikTok's role in accelerating the word's spread by allowing creators to explain meanings visually and in real time. Holliday notes that younger users who have never experienced the word as a slur encounter it first in positive contexts, giving them a different relationship to it. Both guests push back on the idea that a single linguist can grant permission for word use, arguing that language is fundamentally democratic and community-governed. Wright cautions that the real problem arises when people treat marginalised communities' language as a costume — something to pick up and put down — without acknowledging the history of oppression that generated it. The episode closes with a broader discussion of semantic inversion, noting that words like 'killed it,' 'crushed,' 'slayed,' 'awesome,' and 'tremendous' all underwent similar shifts from negative to intensely positive, driven by the human desire to express extreme enthusiasm.

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