Switch, Pivot or Quit

Potential to Be

·5 min
This episode of the Quit Playing Small podcast features host Ahyiana Angel delivering a solo monologue on personal development. The episode opens with Angel introducing the show's purpose as a space for inspired thinking and encouragement. She begins by stating that wise people realize they are not yet who they have the potential to be. Angel notes that when young, this realization is easier to accept, but as people age, societal pressure increases to have everything figured out. She describes how people feel they should have met certain goals, known certain people, and seen certain places already. The host counters this by explaining that most people feel this way because life is a journey, not a destination. Angel observes that society trains people to look for destinations rather than living in the moment. She mentions hearing commentary from friends and others about wanting to be more present in moments. Angel emphasizes that where you are right now is part of your journey and you will never be in this exact place again. She advises listeners to absorb everything about their current moments, including sights, sounds, and connections. The host explains that it takes time, awareness, and growth to identify the type of person you want to be. She clarifies that by external elements, she means what's happening around you, not taking on everything from others. Angel reads from her initial writing that it takes these factors to identify who you want to be and go through steps to become that person. She reiterates the phrase 'take your time and let your life be lived,' which she also used earlier in a recorded conversation with a guest. Angel critiques how people rush through life as if trying to reach another destination. She questions what people remember from their journey and whether they take time to soak in experiences. The host stresses the importance of paying attention to how you feel and how you make others feel. She concludes by hoping listeners learn to take their time more, keeping the episode short and sweet. Angel thanks listeners for spending time with her and sends love and hugs before signing off.
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