The Barista Test: The Brutal Truth About Attraction in Marriage

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If you want to curl 35 pound dumbbells, you can't wish it, pray it, or manifest it—you have to build the muscle.

The host Keith argues that maintaining a wife's sexual attraction in marriage requires men to cultivate a 'perception of options' by living at a high personal standard, making themselves desirable to other women. He shares his own story of losing and regaining his wife's attraction, and presents this as a learnable skill for high-performing men dissatisfied with their marital intimacy.

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