I Never Initiate Sex | Advice with the Queens

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A 25-year-old virgin describes a flirty encounter with a married coworker who rubbed her back and messaged from his wife's phone.

The episode opens with Lucy and Nikki announcing their Happy Hour Live tour, with dates in Sydney (November 7th), Perth (November 27th), and Melbourne (December 18th), and early access tickets on sale soon. They transition into their 'Advice with the Queens' segment, starting with a lighthearted ramble about wardrobe design and a story about a Karen on a plane. The first serious advice question involves a listener whose boyfriend of four years broke up three months ago, and now her best friend is spending extensive time with the ex, including planning to move overseas together, which the hosts find suspicious. Next, a 25-year-old virgin describes a flirty relationship with a married 42-year-old coworker who touched her back and messaged from his wife's phone, leading to speculation about swinging; the hosts advise asking 'what's the go?' directly. Another listener seeks help for never initiating sex with her boyfriend despite enjoying it; Lucy shares her own rejection sensitivity, and they suggest setting personal challenges. A question about dating an overweight man who is already gym-going prompts advice to be supportive. Job dissatisfaction tied to social circles is discussed, with references to their past Red Bull jobs. An ADHD-diagnosed builder from New Zealand asks for management tips; Lucy details her strategies like using an assistant, brain dumps, and time-blocking. The final question is about smile lines at age 24, with mixed advice on embracing them or seeking cosmetic help. The episode wraps with calls to follow on social media and join their Facebook group.

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A workplace flirtation turns into swinger speculation, bar-room chemistry, and a suggestive message from a wife's phone.

A tour announcement leads into a listener's workplace flirtation, which becomes harder to read after she and a colleague end up at the same bar.

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You want messy advice about a flirty work situation, possible swinger signals, and one very questionable message from a wife's phone.

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