David tells his mom his dad smashed an office chair over his head when he was a kid.
The episode begins with casual banter about baseball, including Shohei Ohtani's performance and MLB economics. David then shifts to personal topics, describing recent conflicts with his parents after moving closer to them. He recounts a fight with his mom over a trivial comment about baby formula, leading to a deeper confrontation. David admits to his mom that he loves his dad but doesn't like him, sparking a discussion about past abuse. He lists specific incidents, such as his dad beating him with an office chair, which his mom was unaware of. David explains his dad's anxiety now mirrors the anger that caused abuse when David was a child. He emphasizes that his dad doesn't remember the abuse, making reconciliation difficult, but he focuses on his dad being a good grandfather. The conversation expands to broader themes of Korean parenting, favoritism toward his brother, and societal pressures. David shares how his mom later acknowledged he raised himself, showing progress. He discusses training his parents to communicate better, with incremental changes over years. The episode touches on friends' parenting styles and the impact of childhood trauma on adult relationships. David reflects on suicidal thoughts in his youth and how defying his dad's expectations saved him. He concludes by appreciating his dad's growth while acknowledging ongoing emotional challenges.
